Tom Cali

June 16, 2016


Past Services

Monday June 20, 2016
7:00 pm
Altmeyer Funeral Home - Southside Chapel
5033 Rouse Drive
Virginia Beach, VA 23462
(757) 422-4000 | Directions

Tom Cali
VIRGINIA BEACH- Tom Cali passed away peacefully June 16, 2016.
He is survived by his son Vance; brothers Billy and Russ (Barbara) Cali; sisters Sharon, Ceilia (Jim), and Meg (Patrick); and a large extended family including Diane and Roseann Kinne who were to the very end the best friends Tom could have ever asked for. Tom was predeceased by his parents Russ and Lavinia; his brothers Steve and Raymond and recently his nephew Michael.
Tom was an incredible drummer and was a founding member of Hotcakes. His humor, energy and love of life will be sorely missed.
A special thanks to all of the wonderful people at Currituck House where Tom spent the last years of his life. He was their “Rockstar” and they were our heroes.
In lieu of flowers the family is requesting memorial donations be made to Currituck House 141 Moyock Landing Dr., Moyock, N.C. 27958.
A Celebration of Life will be held Monday, June 20, 2016 at 7pm at Altmeyer Funeral Home, 5792 Greenwich Road, Virginia Beach.
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Robbie Vernon
2 years ago

Tom I am sorry I wasn’t there dear brother. Everything happens to quickly. Hope to meet again in whatever is next. I miss you bro.

Cindy LeGault Minehan
7 years ago

So sorry for your loss, I will always remember Tommy as a free spirit. He is an angel in heaven now playing music for sure

Cindy LeGault Minehan
7 years ago

Tommy and my brother were best friends, we all hung around together during our teen years. Tommy was always so much fun! God bless him he is now an angel in heaven.

Michael Moritz Jr.
7 years ago

Tom, You were a piece of work on a good or bad day………………
I remember the times we played music and talked about everything under the moon.
I believe that you are at a better place, and not suffering anymore.
Vaya Con Dios, Old Amigo……………… I will never forget you.

7 years ago

Dear family you have my heartfelt condolences. May the God the Father of tender mercy (Psalm 83:18) surround and comfort you during this difficult time and in the days ahead.